My wife doesn't mind me smoking on the patio outside. Inside is a no go until we convert to hardwood floors. I really don't mind smoking outside though-- not a huge stale smoke fan.
She doesn't really say anything about the boxes I order either. One time when I had like 12 deliveries in a month she said "Do you think you have enough cigars?" but other than that one time she never said anything. Probably because my response to that was to buy her a bunch of clothes and shoes.