oliverdst Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Hey, guys, I want to tell you that I am facing some dark clouds in my life at the moment. Marriage stuff. If I stop posting and someone wants to contact me try the inbox or my personal email (handle in Hotmail). I like you all (most of you ?). See you 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Optic101 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sorry to hear and hope the storm will be not to bad. Try not to disappear, FOH is a wonderful place to get strength and energy back. All the Best. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BellevilleMXZ Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 11 minutes ago, oliverdst said: Hey, guys, I want to tell you that I am facing some dark clouds in my life at the moment. Marriage stuff. If I stop posting and someone wants to contact me try the inbox or my personal email (handle in Hotmail). I like you all (most of you ?). See you I have been there, keep your chin up fella, better days ahead. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigger Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Hang in there. The toughest parts of my life have led to the best parts. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burningman Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 You can't keep a good man down! Keep moving forward and thinking positive. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habana Mike Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Hey Oliver! Best of wishes as you weather the storm. Best not to leave behind things, please check in time to time. Was great to meet you finally last November and hope to smoke cigars with you again some day soon. Hang in there! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
westg Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sorry to hear ..sad news Oliva.You have plenty of friends here . You are a great guy , was so good meeting you and spending time in Cuba . [email protected] or whatsap as well or pick up the phone ...anytime you need someone to chat to..please do it ! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuzz Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Hey buddy! Sorry to hear the bad news. Keep the faith and check in from time to time when you can, especially if you're feeling down. I'm sure there are plenty of us here who have gone through similar problems. If you need to vent, by all means, post in here. You are not alone, and we're all here for you. Fuzz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Presidente Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Oliver so sorry to hear. never feel that you are alone. Many people here have gone through it or are going through it. Stay in touch and reach out whenever you need to. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryan Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Very sorry to hear this, wishing you the best. As Prez says, stay in touch. There's a lot of life experience on this forum. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sorry to hear this, I can only echo the excellent posts already here, just don't withdraw and lose what your enjoy doing, you'll need these things no matter how daft to keep you sane. Nothing good in this life is easy to get, and nothing ever stays the same 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBird55 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Wishing you peace and tranquillity, as you navigated the troubled waters, that lie ahead. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stogieluver Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 So sorry you’re going through this, Oliver. Please stay in touch with your FOH family. A lot of us here have gone through something similar and we can help support you through these dark times. The sun will shine again, so keep your head up and plow through. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madandana Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Hey brother. Dana and I will be thinking of you and hoping for the best. We love your spirit and sense of humor. Hang in there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ken Gargett Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 best of luck. i hope it works out exactly how you want it to. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErikB72 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Wish you all the strength 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nino Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Oliver, sorry to read that. Pero : todo pasa y nada es final, tomate tu tiempo y te deseo lo mejor ! Nos vemos en Cuba. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Str8BlkCoffee Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 It is always darkest before the dawn. Keep your chin up. Time heals all. Good luck. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irratebass Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sorry to hear this brother, as everyone has already said you are not alone, if you need to reach out pm me or email me [email protected] good luck man, 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokum Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Been there. Done that. It will get better given a little time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cigcars Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 *Sometimes when things we don't want actually happen to us - it can be an unexpected and unforeseen result that may actually please or benefit you. An example was given by our minister about his pet hamster safely in his cage, trying his darnedest to get out. He'd seen where the people went to his cage to unlatch it, and that hamster was scratching at it like crazy to get it open. What the hamster couldn't see was their pet beagle watching and waiting around the corner practically cheerleading it on like, "Come on, baby you can do it! Come on - Come on you can do it!" Because he was waiting to snag it in his teeth and hamster would have been history...if he'd gotten what he wanted. And for myself, in going to the most unwanted assignment at work for a project I didn't feel like participating in - long story short, it resulted in VERY advantageous, heart comforting activities outside the block. The best remedy for heartbreak and emotional distress is only acceptance. Because we add all kinds of definitions unnecessarily to words these days - acceptance doesn't mean that you like, want, or welcome what's going on. It means that you tell yourself, "Oh well - there's nothing I can really do about it (if that's the case). And you sit down and stop fighting against it. Again, this is for situations truly beyond your control. And you let what's going on pass, and LO! - something better will almost always come in its place. Because we don't know, and have only limited control over some things in life, we ask The Big Dude upstairs to make the best outcome for ALL CONCERNED come about! Hope this is some help from your friendly forum member bargain basement philosopher 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StalinisBallinn Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Hope to see you around! Good luck to you my friend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakeLA Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Sorry to hear it man. Hang in there. Wishing you all the best. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squarehead Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 One door closes,another will open up 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SOFLO88 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 "THE NIGHT IS DARKEST BEFORE THE DAWN" Shit happens and will happen, keep pushing forward, there's no such thing as do-overs. Do what you can to make things work but dont sacrifice who or what you are in order to do it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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