Popular Post CaptainQuintero Posted April 18, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted April 18, 2020 Just putting out a shout that FoH has a dedicated space to use if anyone is having a wobble or feels like they are struggling at the moment with any type of mental, physical or emotional health, or that of their friends and family, even dealing with financial worries. If the direct link isn't working for you, it should be near the top of the list of clubs here and named The Black Dog https://www.friendsofhabanos.com/forum/clubs/ It's a private group within this site to share, vent or seek a bit of help or guidance. It's set away from the main waterhole forum, we all know there shouldn't be any taboo about talking about our problems but there still is in life and this is a place that's just removed from the usual hubbub to help make it easier to make that first post that can be such a big hurdle. I know they'll be people who will read the posts but not feel like writing anything, totally welcome to do that. They'll be people who have put up a big defence up to deal with the pressures and worries that this situation has brought up, there's a space to let that defense down a bit and vent what you're dealing with. Or even if you feel those defenses starting to crack and you need a boost to get back in control. Control is a bit part of how we deal with life, and a lack of it, or the perception of a lack of it can start to cause issues. This current situation is a mother of an issue in terms of having personal control. So not going to keep this too long. If you feel you need a hand to help deal with all of this: be it having the virus, recovering from it, afraid of it or anything 'normal' that this situation has exacerbated, or anything else like what you're doing to help keep you distracted, please jump and participate as much or as little as you feel happy to. Cap. ---------------- Edit- There's a couple of really good apps that I'm putting up in the club but are worth adding here, Unmind and Headspace are brilliant, depending where you are and who you work for they also can be free, but there's free trials on both. https://home.unmind.com/ https://www.headspace.com/ And don't forget the FoH zoom virtual herds if you need a bit of normalcy and a smile Nb- There are no requirements to join like the trading room, there's just a wait until the join request is seen by a Mod and clicked through, so don't worry if you're not getting in instantly. Clubs are usually accessed via the personal menu button, top right from which you can go to your profile, account settings etc, and it's there at the bottom of that list. 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rupe Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 Thank you for the invite @CaptainQuintero! Unfortunately I must not have the proper credentials because the site is not allowing me to visit the black dog section. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 18, 2020 Author Share Posted April 18, 2020 59 minutes ago, Rupe said: Thank you for the invite @CaptainQuintero! Unfortunately I must not have the proper credentials because the site is not allowing me to visit the black dog section. There's just a button to click through by a Mod to accept a new join request, don't worry it will be done, have you clicked the apply to join button? If so it will get seen asap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rupe Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 When I click the link I just get a message that says "Sorry, there was a problem. The page you requested does not exist". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 18, 2020 Author Share Posted April 18, 2020 4 hours ago, Rupe said: When I click the link I just get a message that says "Sorry, there was a problem. The page you requested does not exist". Amended the post now to include directions if you're getting the error message. This is the list to all the clubs: https://www.friendsofhabanos.com/forum/clubs/ The Black Dog it should at the top, if not near the top of the list. I think should be working now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MigsG Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 Just curious if discussing faith will be allowed as a remedy or is that banned as part of the overall forum rules? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnS Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 30 minutes ago, MigsG said: Just curious if discussing faith will be allowed as a remedy or is that banned as part of the overall forum rules? The discussion of faith is not banned, rather the denigration of other people's faith is. The rule is below... Rule 3 No Ridicule of Religion Religion to many here is a personal pursuit. There may be topics of interest involving religion which is acceptable. What is not acceptable is inciting denigration. So in this instance, this is a topic of interest where for some people, yes religion plays a role and can be brought into the discussion. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MigsG Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 15 minutes ago, JohnS said: The discussion of faith is not banned, rather the denigration of other people's faith is. The rule is below... Rule 3 No Ridicule of Religion Religion to many here is a personal pursuit. There may be topics of interest involving religion which is acceptable. What is not acceptable is inciting denigration. So in this instance, this is a topic of interest where for some people, yes religion plays a role and can be brought into the discussion. Thanks John, that makes perfect sense. Appreciate your response. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 18, 2020 Author Share Posted April 18, 2020 1 hour ago, MigsG said: Just curious if discussing faith will be allowed as a remedy or is that banned as part of the overall forum rules? Couldn't have said it any better than Mr S. If it helps then there's good in it in my book. From what's been talked about previously, there certainly isn't any type of atmosphere that would make someone feel they couldn't broach a subject or way of helping. There's a great header that Rob out up there at the start: No one judges here. The primary objective of Black Dog is that when you click out......you are in a better head space than when you clicked in. The club has up to now mostly been a connection hub from where PMs took off from but if it can help with more threads from individuals reaching out or venting then that's a bonus. I know they're a little tucked away so hopefully this is a reminder that the facility is there for those new or who haven't navigated around to find them. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordAnubis Posted April 19, 2020 Share Posted April 19, 2020 I've just approved a heap of you to join the club. I'll see if that particular club can possibly be made open to all so approval isn't necessary. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habana Mike Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 In these days I’d say a yes to that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
havanaclub Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 I got error message too saying it’s not available for your account. I clicked join. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 20, 2020 Author Share Posted April 20, 2020 9 hours ago, havanaclub said: I got error message too saying it’s not available for your account. I clicked join. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk I've sent a manual invite your way, it should be in your notifications now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
havanaclub Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 I've sent a manual invite your way, it should be in your notifications now Sorry I don’t see the invite in my PM or notifications? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 20, 2020 Author Share Posted April 20, 2020 11 minutes ago, havanaclub said: Sorry I don’t see the invite in my PM or notifications? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pm sent, might be a Tapatalk issue or a broken link, so just a few things to try Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainQuintero Posted April 21, 2020 Author Share Posted April 21, 2020 5 hours ago, VKUTT said: When I clicked the link it said "We could not locate the item you are trying to view". ☹ Are both links not working for you? At the very least the second which takes you to the list of clubs should be ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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